Long Distance Domination and Long Distance FLR

You find her. The Goddess, Domme, Domina, Mistress, Lady of your dreams. The perfect D/s or FLR. You discovered Her online which has it's own set of complications but worth working to overcome. What are some ways to keep that connection alive over the miles or even transatlantic? Let's take a look at some helpful tools.

First we come to Bond Touch bracelets. These bracelets are about the size of a FitBit and are worn on the wrist. It has an app that you download and can customize light colors as well as the "touch" vibrations. You can send up to ten "touch" vibrations and can also customize the pattern and rhythm of the sensations. 

You can follow your partner's location and even the weather where they are. Coming soon on their app is a Share Message and Share Pics option which I am sure that many are looking forward to.

My friend, Goddess Devora, has a pair that she uses with her special friend. She has informed me that while intended for the wrist, the bracelet can also be attached to another appendage if you so desire. She has also come up with the idea of making her own set of vibration "codes" with her friend for a more personal experience.

An added note that Goddess Devora brought up is that this device can be alternate means of communication for someone with a disability or other barriers to traditional communication. 

It looks to be pretty discreet as well. The only drawback that I can find at the moment is that you can only link a pair. This could be problematic for those in a polyamorous relationship or for a dominant with multiple submissives. Maybe this is something the company can address in the future.

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Next we have something a little bit more tame. I know, you're thinking that I mean boring, and for some it may be. Maybe your job or life circumstances prohibit you from wearing anything like jewelry or a watch. Maybe you're only able to communicate from your home. Here we have Friendship Lamps.

This is a touch lamp and when you tap it, the other one will light up in the house of the other person. A simple concept really, but imagine that you're getting ready for bed after a long day and the light comes on? Or it's a signal that it's a good time to call. This is an easy way to say hello and stay connected across the miles.

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So let's move into some more fun stuff. A little kinky or vanilla, depending on your desires. Depending on your relationship dynamic, odds are you either play together or have your chosen partner control your orgasms. Here comes a company called Lovense.

Lovense sells a line of products that vibrate and can be controlled by an app. I know of several camgirls, dommes, and submissives that use these and they always say the same thing. Powerful and worth every penny. I have a wishlist for myself on the site for several of their products.

Pictured is the Hush, Lovense's vibrating butt plug. If anal play is not your thing, however, Lovense has more to offer. Their current line boasts of vibrators, male masturbators, butt plugs, prostate massagers, wands, and G spot toys. All can be controlled by the app, either by you, or the person you allow to have the control.

Lovense can go over really long distances (even transatlantic) and the vibration strength is programmable.

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These are only three options for keeping a long distance D/s or FLR fresh. Rest assured, I am searching for more options and will make another post when I have some good ones. I've found a few stinkers today that did not impress me.

I'm not affiliated with any of the products listed here, so clicking the links does not get me a kick back or free product. (I wish!) So feel free to explore and learn more about them on your own.

Do you have anything that you use to keep your connections fresh? Is there a product that you'd like me to talk about? Email me at dragonflyden77@gmail.com or comment below and share your tips, tricks, and thoughts.